He cuts off the phone when I call him
Dear Doctor,
Am in a relationship with a man though it is not stable. Whenever i call him he cuts off the phone and calls the next day claiming someone had annoyed him and we stay for many months without communicating as he claims hes always busy. I have decided to quit and am leaving 2 a far country. Is it a better decision?
Regards,
Maryann
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Dear MaryAnn,
First let me apologize for misreading the first statement. I thought you had written that you are in a relationship with a man though HE is not stable -upstairs I mean. Then on reading it again, I realized all of you are totally unstable. Just freaking nuts!
Lets start with the man. Anyone who CUTS OFF a phone simply because someone tried to call is unstable. Normal people simply disconnect the call and I thus imagine he has an anger management problem. Does he not get tired of buying new phones with all the cutting he does to his phones when you call? Thats an unstable man.
Second, the relationship. This one is definately an unstable one considering it only exists in your head. He obviously wants nothing to do with you yet you still imagine there is a relationship even when you guys go for MONTHS without communication. Thats definitely a very unstable relationship.
Lastly, lets talk about you. You definately are a special one. The special kind that requires special hospitals with specialists in extremely special retardation cases. Why? You decide to quit an obviously non-existent relationship and move to a far country. So is this what you will be doing everytime a relationship goes sour? Thats a psychological problem right there.
Last thing I want is to be married to someone like you. We may fight one night and when I wake up the next morning, you call me from the top of a tree in Uzbekistan (or some other country with a difficult name) to tell me its over.
